Escape Route
We all feel deeply low at one or other time of our lives. Some do more often than others. All of us have their way to deal with such situation. Some get sober, some mourns, some isolate themselves; while some lose themselves in crowd. We all have our ways. Those who don't have make others to make one for them. So, I can safely say most of us have Escape Route for our feel-low-situations. Most of these Escape Routes are very impractical or better word would be imaginative in nature.
Generally no one else except you yourself know about it. In some cases even you yourself don't know; as it's subconsciously in back of your mind. When we mourn or starts to feel low, and there is no external force to keep you engage or keep you away from haunted by the lowness. Then this Escape Route make its way in your things. You start crossing the line subtly towards this route. Its like you fallen sleep while thinking about your struggle; and there in dreams you make consolation situation which make let you win or lose over your actual situations. It make you think yourself as a third person and in a way make you absorb the situation in better way.
In that Escape Route, some put (consider) themselves in better position to bring temporary happiness to forget their actual grieves. While other will opt for worsen situation to consolidate their current go-through. There are people who just imagine some humongous circumstances which would(as they think) end their grief in such manner that none notice why it happens. Its like cover-up action like an earthquake, which could happen just because someone wants end of their woes. Everyone have their route to console themselves.
Some make themselves lost in world of dreams. Dreams where they make their woes work for them. They will bend it, twist it to make it work in their favor. I believe its human tendency.
One route is where person convince self out, that they have been the sufferer and thus shall mourn no more and move on to make way for other kind of happiness.Other common circumstance is when person is wrong-doer, and feel low due to that. Escape route in that comes in form of other grieves which actually are not directly linked to that wrong-doing. Person would convince it out to self that he done that because he had no other option or circumstance made it happen. So, he or she cant do much about that. For example, someone leave his beloved for sake of family.
Somewhere we have to leave those grieve behind and move on. This can't be done unless we either sober enough to phase it out; or follow one of our escape route. Either way, we learn to handle lowness of kind that we passed through last.
Generally no one else except you yourself know about it. In some cases even you yourself don't know; as it's subconsciously in back of your mind. When we mourn or starts to feel low, and there is no external force to keep you engage or keep you away from haunted by the lowness. Then this Escape Route make its way in your things. You start crossing the line subtly towards this route. Its like you fallen sleep while thinking about your struggle; and there in dreams you make consolation situation which make let you win or lose over your actual situations. It make you think yourself as a third person and in a way make you absorb the situation in better way.
In that Escape Route, some put (consider) themselves in better position to bring temporary happiness to forget their actual grieves. While other will opt for worsen situation to consolidate their current go-through. There are people who just imagine some humongous circumstances which would(as they think) end their grief in such manner that none notice why it happens. Its like cover-up action like an earthquake, which could happen just because someone wants end of their woes. Everyone have their route to console themselves.
Some make themselves lost in world of dreams. Dreams where they make their woes work for them. They will bend it, twist it to make it work in their favor. I believe its human tendency.
One route is where person convince self out, that they have been the sufferer and thus shall mourn no more and move on to make way for other kind of happiness.Other common circumstance is when person is wrong-doer, and feel low due to that. Escape route in that comes in form of other grieves which actually are not directly linked to that wrong-doing. Person would convince it out to self that he done that because he had no other option or circumstance made it happen. So, he or she cant do much about that. For example, someone leave his beloved for sake of family.
Somewhere we have to leave those grieve behind and move on. This can't be done unless we either sober enough to phase it out; or follow one of our escape route. Either way, we learn to handle lowness of kind that we passed through last.
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